Ideas About Working Together As A Team With The Newborn

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Here are some ways to involve your partner in helping with the baby after work or during the day:

Divide and Conquer: Assign specific tasks, like handling snack time for the older kids while you tend to the baby.


Engage with the Baby: Have other play or interact with the baby to give you some downtime or time to help the older kids.


Bedtime Routine: Encourage other to take charge of the evening routine, like bathing or reading to the baby before bed.


Grocery and Errands: If possible, other can run errands or pick up groceries while you manage the kids at home.


Quality Family Time: Encourage other to spend time with the older kids while you care for the baby, fostering bonding among them.


Meal Prep: Other can help with dinner prep or clean-up, making evening meals easier for everyone.


Support with Homework: Have other assist the older kids with homework or projects while you care for the baby.


Tag Team: Create a flexible schedule where you can alternate between caring for the baby and spending time with the older kids.


By communicating your needs and creating a shared plan, you can both contribute to a smoother transition after work and school!

Here are some ways your other can help with a newborn:

Diaper Duty: Take charge of diaper changes to give you a break and share the workload.


Feeding Support: If you're bottle-feeding or pumping, other can handle some feedings to help with bonding.


Baby Soothing: Learn techniques for calming the baby, like rocking or swaddling, to give you a little time for yourself.


Household Chores: Help with chores like laundry or dishes to keep the home running smoothly.


Night Shifts: Take turns during nighttime feedings or soothing sessions to ensure both of you get rest.


Go for Walks: Take the baby for walks in the stroller, giving you a break and providing fresh air for everyone.


Attend Appointments: Join you for pediatrician visits or other appointments for support and to share responsibilities.


Bonding Time: Spend one-on-one time with the baby during playtime or skin-to-skin contact to strengthen their bond.


Encouraging other's involvement not only eases your load but also fosters a strong connection between him and the baby! I am so blessed to have an "other", my husband, who is amazing with babies! My husband worked from home the last year when we had our foster baby. We took shifts at night. I went to bed by 9pm, he stayed up until 3am, then we switched. It was wonderful to share in the responsibilities with the baby; definitely necessary when you have a newborn and you are in your mid-50's!